“I want AI to do my laundry and dishes so that I can do art and writing, not for AI to do my art and writing so that I can do my laundry and dishes.”
This widely shared quote from Polish writer Joanna Maciejewska captures the mood of many women contemplating how the coming technological revolution will change their lives. Marshall Ganz, the founder of Harvard University’s community organising curriculum, noted that collective pain can be a powerful unifier across society because that pain becomes a shared cause. Systematised, it becomes an engine for change.
Artificial Intelligence (AI) promises nothing less than a new civilisational model, prompting reflection on women’s position within that. How, in short, can women be empowered in this new world? Does the technology let them? This is particularly pertinent for highly capable women who nevertheless continue to have to navigate traditional gender-role distributions and stereotypes within both the home and the workplace.
Invisible efforts
Yusr Sadek, a young Lebanese mother-of-three, shares memes and videos depicting the daily household responsibilities of mothers and feels trapped and unappreciated. “I endlessly divide my daily schedule between tidying, cleaning, cooking, teaching, and worrying about whether my sons will pass their school tests. Day after day, these tasks have come to define my life. It’s even more frustrating that those around us don’t recognise these duties as genuine work that consumes all our time and energy.”
A business graduate, she had to leave her job (where she found success and fulfilment), emigrate to another Arab country, and face the work/home trade-off, ultimately having to prioritise the latter.
“It’s strange how ambitions diminish,” she wonders. “Many are now focused on how AI can spare us from dusting or suggest cooking recipes.”
Gender stereotypes
Yusr is not alone in this struggle. Many societies still expect women to manage the household while the husband works outside the home. In 2020, United Nations Women recommended re-categorising these tasks under the ‘care economy.’
The biggest gender imbalance was within the Arab world. The UN Women report highlighted that “women in Arab countries perform 4.7 times more unpaid care work than men, the highest ratio globally”.
French feminist writer Gisèle Szczyglak, the author of Subversives, explores how societal superstructures like culture, art, religion, and ideology shape the distribution of productive roles, critiquing the notion of “cramming their historical oppression (men) into our genes (women)”.
In her book Prehistoric Women, Tunisian-French philosopher and historian Claudine Cohen argues that male domination is not a natural construct but a historical one, shaped by deliberate social role attributions in cultures that favour men.
Engy Ghanem, a Lebanese-Egyptian postgraduate in data science and machine learning, was part of the scientific community that developed AI but has not benefitted from it. Instead, she chooses to care for her two children at home. She has been out of the labour market for 12 years after university studies that spanned Lebanon, America, and Turkey. "I sometimes experience waves of depression," she explains.
"I lost my initial hope that I would be among the pioneering Arab women to thrive in the digital revolution, expecting universities and job markets to open doors for me."
Virtual assistants
Dr Ghanem thinks AI will assist with household tasks, citing today's virtual assistants like Alexa and Siri, which operate on voice commands.
"Siri initially served as a voice assistant on Apple phones but has since developed similar to Alexa (an AI device for home use). However, it remains accessible only on a limited scale and for those with higher budgets in most Arab countries."
Ghanem says Alexa or Siri can engage in dialogue and detect people's moods, for instance, by finding and playing 'happy' songs.
"The ability to listen, search, respond, and make selections are human-like traits, placing them within the realm of AI, while Siri can perform more intricate tasks, such as by adjusting lighting according to our mood."
They serve as intelligent companions, capable of interfacing with all household appliances, from commands issued via apps or vocalised. They can assist with chores such as dishwashing or laundry or with leisure, such as music or TV, but some tasks, such as cooking, are not yet within reach. AI can learn our routines and requirements and tailor activities accordingly. However, Ghanem says these systems cost money, and many mothers would prioritise their children's upbringing and education if they had a choice.